How to Spot a Winner

Reading a book by Paul Meyer called "Developing Winning Behavior" and wanted to share some excerpts from it.

There are quite a few people who have learned to dress professionally and "talk the talk" of a winner but they haven't chosen to "walk the walk". If you know the signs to look for, you will be able to tell whether you're dealing with a genuine winner or merely spending time with a loser who has learned to "fake" it.

Right out of the gate I'm always looking for THREE signs that indicate whether I'm dealing with someone who has the winner mentality. It doesn't mean they have accomplished all their desires or goals but i can tell rather quickly if they are on their way.

1. Winners are willing to accept responsibility for their life and behavior: Winners admit their mistakes and are willing to learn from them. Losers blame other people or circumstances for whatever happens to them.

2. Winners are willing to play the price to get the job done: Winners get on with whatever needs to be done to accomplish the job at hand or to reach the goals they have set for themselves. Losers talk a great deal about what they are going to do but never get around to doing it.

3. Winners make a personal commitment to themselves and others: Winners mean it when they say, "You can count on me." They do what they say they'll do when they say they'll do it. Losers make idle promises and offer excuses for failing to deliver.

WHAT SEPARATES A WINNER FROM A LOSER?

The two things that control your life are your ATTITUDES and your BEHAVIORS and YOU get to choose both of them. While you may have some negative attitudes and behaviors at the moment, it is YOU who decides whether to keep them or to start the process of change.

When you master both your attitudes and your behaviors, you can pretty much control the destiny of your life. Winners choose to take the necessary steps to re-program themselves to have a positive mindset and to do whatever it takes to accomplish their goals. Winners are willing to PAY THE PRICE!

Losers are lazy and choose to keep their negative attitudes and behaviors, accepting anything that happens as fate rather than the result of their own choices while using all their energy to complain about being victimized by other people and circumstances.

WHY YOU MAY NOT BE WINNING.

If you believe your attitudes and behaviors are generally positive but if you are not winning in life, you might want to consider the following:

• You may have not set high enough goals. When people are not challenging themselves to be the best they can be, they become bored, disappointed and negative. Winners have a well-written plan that is broken down that can be measured and monitored.

• You may be allowing obstacles on the way to your goals to derail and defeat you. There will always be obstacles no matter what you are trying to accomplish. I've learned to view obstacles as opportunities for growth and learning, as stepping stones to the next level.

• You may be concentrating on your problems and not your power. Winners know they have weaknesses, but they appreciate their abilities far more. They keep doing whatever is necessary to learn, grow, and improve their skills.

Winners have an electric, enthusiastic vibration about them. They refuse negative mindsets, concentrate on their strengths; are committed to grow and improve, and never compromise their principles. You can count on them; they keep their word. They take personal responsibility for their choices. They are willing to pay the price.

The bottom line is you just can't fake being a winner, because a winner is easy to spot! SO......

ARE YOU A WINNER?????